"If your sucess is not on your own terms,
if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart,
it is not sucess at all."
Anna Quindlen
Was looking around and found this quote. Really suites my thinking. Sucess in life is something that is determined by you and only you. That explains why some people aim to have a steady job and a nice family while others aim to remain single while enjoying thier time with thier friends.
We should not compare with others and not let the acheivements of others affect our defination of sucess. Afterall, one mans apple is another mans poison. We should always be clear of what we want and aim for that. We are only truely sucessfull when we feel good about what we have done and are proud of it :)